My Dad is such a fighter. When he was first diagnosed with leukemia in 2010 it was such a blow to all of us. Here he was the strongest man we knew having his whole world (and ours) change in the blink of an eye. They told my dad he could expect three years of life with his diagnosis, but from the beginning we all insisted there was no date stamp anywhere on him. He has fought back from the brink more than once. For a while he had us so scared, we didn't think he'd make it to last Christmas. He scared us again, worse than ever, in April when he nearly died of a bowel obstruction. He's fought his way back to us each and every time. I think he knows how badly we need him here. We love him so much, we just can't bear the thought of losing him.
When my parents learned they had to move, with less than 24 hours notice, my Dad didn't take it too well. He watched as an army of friends and family worked to move everything they could, feeling helpless and full of anxiety. There was little we could do as we watched the panic attacks plague him. He wasn't even really settled at my sister's for 24 hours when his shortness of breath became bad enough to go to the ER the Friday of Memorial Day weekend. We all felt the stress really played a part in his condition deteriorating, as he'd not even been out of the hospital a month really. At first the VA said all he needed was platelets, so they gave him a transfusion, and said they were going to keep him overnight. Then they told him he'd probably be out by Tuesday.... On Wednesday and Thursday he already had scheduled follow up appointments, so they just kept him longer... he needed more blood anyway. They did another bone marrow biopsy. The news wasn't great. My father's cancer is worse again. His blasts are back to 25%.
To make a long story short, his doctor made it clear that they were running out of treatment options at the VA Hospital. The VA tried to make arrangements to transfer my father to Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa to see if they can use some other treatments to get his blasts back down to 5%. We received the news today that Moffitt accepted him as a patient and he will probably be transferred tomorrow. When Moffitt accomplishes that, getting his blasts back down to 5%, then the VA will rush the Bone Marrow Transplant in Nashville. This is such a critical time for my Dad... this is life or death. He is doing his part, cooperating with the doctors (anyone who knows him knows how hard that in itself is for him lol), staying in the hospital when he'd rather be home, agreeing to more chemotherapy when the last round nearly killed him with side effects, etc.....
My point to this update is this, to know my Dad is to love him. He is always there with a helping hand, or a good word of advice. He is always there to make us laugh and encourage us, but now he needs us to be there for him. He needs our prayers now more than ever. Please add him to your daily prayer list, your church prayer list, and if you have friends and family that believe in the power of prayer, spread the word. I would like my dad to be flooded with LOVE & PRAYER... If you feel like contacting him, please send him a message of encouragement.. whether it be by phone, text, email, or Facebook, I am sure he would love to hear from everyone. We would definitely appreciate the prayers... My Dad is a fighter, he won't give up, and with the Lord's help, he will beat this.